I recently met a Jewish mother who told me that whille her children are religiously observant, she definitely is not.
"Neither am I," I told her. "But I've changed the way I do some things out of respect for my sons' beliefs."
"They know better than to ask me to do things their way," she said. "If they don't accept me the way I am, who needs them? Their wives wear skirts, but I won't. My house isn't kosher, but they still visit. So why should I do anything different?"
"Because you're the parent," I wanted to say. "Why not meet them half-way? It has to do with love and respect. Some day your kids might have enough of your way and might give up on you."
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Her lack of respect for her children will come back to haunt her when there will be grandchildren in the picture.
ReplyDeleteWe'll have to wait and see.
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